{"id":1562,"date":"2021-12-09T16:37:25","date_gmt":"2021-12-09T14:37:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/amandamathule.co.za\/wordpress\/?p=1562"},"modified":"2021-12-09T16:43:08","modified_gmt":"2021-12-09T14:43:08","slug":"leadership-trust-your-say-do-ratio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/amandamathule.co.za\/wordpress\/2021\/12\/09\/leadership-trust-your-say-do-ratio\/","title":{"rendered":"Leadership, Trust &#038; your Say-Do Ratio"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>How often have you heard someone say \u201c&#8230; he\u2019s all talk and no action \u2026\u201d or \u201c \u2026 talk is cheap, money buys whiskey \u2026\u201d?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Trust<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Would you trust that person to follow through on what they say they are going to do? Whatever the nature of the organisation &#8211; business, social club, sports team &#8211; trust is the glue that binds leaders and their followers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you aspire to lead your family a good starting point is to look deep within yourself and take stock of the qualities you\u2019ll need if you are to establish a mutual bond of trust between yourself as a leader and your family members.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Without trust, there is no leadership.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Dependability<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Of the many behaviours and qualities, great leaders exhibit, key to building trust is the quality of <em>dependability<\/em>. Can those around you rely upon you to do what you said you would do, at the time you said you would do it, and of the required quality?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s about walking the talk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Following through matters in a world where so many things are competing for our time &#8211; phone calls, SMS messages, emails, instant messaging, and social media to name but a few. All demand our immediate attention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your reputation as a leader relies on following through.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Say-Do Ratio<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A popular measure of your dependability is the Say-Do Ratio. A perfect score is 1. You have done everything you said you would do. A score higher than 1 says you\u2019ve not done everything you said you would do. For example, you may have promised to deliver on a number of projects by the next family meeting, say five projects in total. Yet your report back at the family meeting shows only two projects have been completed. A say-Do Ratio of 2.5. Confidence in your leadership will be eroded quickly if your score remains elevated well above 1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Paying attention to your Say-Do Ratio requires that you:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>Learn to say \u201cNo\u201d<\/strong>. You can\u2019t please all of the people all of the time. Prioritise the many requests you will have before committing.<\/li><li><strong>Don\u2019t promise what you can\u2019t deliver<\/strong>. Overcommitting, while stemming from good intentions, may jeopardise prior commitments and undermine the credibility you are building as a leader. Don\u2019t bite off more than you can chew.<\/li><li><strong>Communicate your successes<\/strong>. Manage the expectations of those you lead. Delays, setbacks and the like are inevitable. Communicate with the family to realign their expectations.<\/li><li><strong>Be consistent<\/strong>. Inconsistency leads to uncertainty and stress in those that follow you. Consistency in following through on your promises positions you as reliable and dependable, essential qualities for a leader.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Being dependable requires self-disciple. Ask yourself the following questions and assess your dependability:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Do I have a system of personal organisation to help me stay accountable and better organised?<\/li><li>Do I set goals that are Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, and Timely (SMART)?<\/li><li>Do I have a system for prioritising my tasks and projects, and keeping track of what needs to be completed by what date?<\/li><li>How do members of my family perceive my dependability?<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>How dependable are you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Photo attribution<a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/@lexhosaguy?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\"> Tembinkosi Sikupela<\/a> on<a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/collections\/8624770\/johannesburg?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\"> Unsplash<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How often have you heard someone say \u201c&#8230; he\u2019s all talk and no action \u2026\u201d or \u201c \u2026 talk is cheap, money buys whiskey \u2026\u201d?&nbsp; Trust Would you trust that person to follow through on what they say they are going to do? 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